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Trusted by teens.

 
Prepare yourself to hear "thank you".

Raise Independent, Reliable Teens
Without Losing Your Mind

The method for harnessing adolescent rebellion into trust, structure, and emotional growth.

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Not parenting advice. A strategic framework for navigating apathy, overwhelm, and fear-based resistance in high achieving teens. 

4 steps. That's it. 


#1. introduce life
#2. set up emotion activating activities
#3. partner with purpose

4. track what happens, repeat or revise 1-3
 

Give it two weeks. And prepare to hear "thank you".

Real parents are saying...

“It’s a well-rounded approach that respects the values I already hold. Emotional literacy, screen habits, identity development—it doesn’t replace my parenting style, it strengthens it."

Kareem R., Single Father

You Don’t Need to Be Perfect


Here’s what the research shows:

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Parent Self-Awareness & Adjustment

  • Longitudinal studies show that parental knowledge (what parents know) is often shaped more by teen disclosure than by parental behavior. — Stattin & Kerr, 2000; Psychology Today, 2025

  • Parents who track their own decisions (rules, reactions, expectations) are better able to:

    • Identify patterns in teen resistance or withdrawal

    • Adjust communication styles to reduce secrecy and increase trust

    • Shift from reactive discipline to proactive guidance

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Strategic Insight for Families

 

  • Monitoring is most effective when paired with open communication and warmth. Teens are more likely to follow rules when they feel heard, respected, and supported. — CDC & ReGroup Foundation, 20234

  • Tracking decisions over time helps families distinguish between:

    • A teen’s need for more structure or emotional regulation

    • A parent’s need to revise expectations, tone, or timing

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Cognitive & Behavioral Outcomes

 

  • 86% of teens report that their parents “usually or always” know where they are and who they’re with. These teens are significantly less likely to engage in risky behaviors like substance use, early sexual activity, or violence. — CDC Youth Risk Behavior Survey, 2021

  • Teens with high parental monitoring are:

    • 40% less likely to misuse prescription opioids

    • 35% less likely to experience cyberbullying

    • 30% less likely to report persistent sadness or suicidal ideation — American Academy of Pediatrics, 2023

Inside you get 3 worksheets, examples and steps
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Evaluate: Track an activity, schedule or a commitment (i.e. binge watching YouTube or sports practices & games)


 
Observe: Rank them for their impact on your teen and the home environment
 
Reflect: Require a small change in actions
 
 
Then repeat: Evaluate, Observe, Reflect

 

Give it two weeks. And prepare to hear "thank you".

You potty trained.
Tantrums turned into talking.
Walking became running.

 
This teen phase is no different.

What do you want to see your teen excel in?

Finances

Faith
Culture
Nutrition
Athletics
Friendships
Hygiene
Emotions

Wisdom

Character

Social Awareness

Behavior

You are 4 steps away from Raising A Reliable Rebel 


#1. introduce life
#2. set up emotion activating activities
#3. partner with purpose

4. track what happens, repeat or revise 1-3
 

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Your Guide for the Most Critical Parenting Years

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The tween and teen years can feel like chaos—but they’re also a unique opportunity to anchor your child’s identity, confidence, and emotional intelligence.

 

Raising Reliable Rebels combines modern research, ancestral wisdom, and real-world parenting experience to help you:

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  • Get ahead of emotional storms 

  • Encourage self-awareness 

  • Build trust and identity 

  • Adapt guidance for solo, co-parenting, or partnered families​

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This isn’t just theory. It’s a toolkit.

Also Available at Barnes & Noble and Amazon 

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A Message From Maya

​I share this book not because I mastered parenting, but because I refuse to give up on it.

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This method is not a rulebook. It is a reflection—a way for you to choose, with clarity and courage, how to raise teenagers who are both independent and dependable.

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You are equipped, even when you feel unsure.
You are the answer, even when they roll their eyes.
You are the difference, even when the world distracts them.

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And may you do it with heart, with wisdom, and without apology.

​With you in every step,


                 Maya

 

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Investment Time

Research shows that handwriting activates neural pathways linked to memory, focus, and decision-making.

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Training the brain to think strategically, regulate emotions, and build wealth literacy from the inside out.

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*universal design perfect for dyslexia, & neurodiverse

More Ways to Learn, Grow & Support Your Teen

AI Companion

Meet Your Parenting Co-Pilot: 

Now on demand.
You’ve read the book. You’ve opened the workbook. Now, meet the AI agent that brings it all to life—right when you need it most.

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Situation Coach

Tell it what happened

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Helps you reframe, respond, and repair—without losing your cool

Reliable Rebel Companion™ is your 24/7 parenting support tool, trained on the exact strategies from Raising Reliable Rebels. It’s not just smart—it’s your kind of smart.

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Because Playing It Safe Was Never the Plan

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Not parenting advice. A strategic framework for navigating apathy, overwhelm, and fear-based resistance in high achieving teens. 

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